Childhood is a time of growth, unexpected realizations, and joy. It’s a pertinent point in our lives and defines us as individuals. However, that definition may not be actualized until later in life. Keep in mind that arriving at this vital understanding is not a race.
As a people, we are different. Certain folks may find their individual definition during their teens. For others, this notion may become fully understood during their 20s. Some are possibly quite settled into adulthood, grasping at straws while attempting to clarify the crucial role of their adolescence.
Our life paths may all seemingly align in theme, but the speed those paths are understood differs for us all. Pinpointing the exact date you will realize your role in life is futile. It simply cannot be predicted.
Tweet ThisWhen we were young, we experienced emotions and witnessed events we likely misunderstood at the time. As time progressed, our understanding of past events gradually took hold.
Children retain more information than you might think. A child who experiences the terrible loss of a loved one may not outwardly illustrate his or her understanding. Nevertheless, that child will stow away that life event. When such an event occurs again, the child will have the know-how to handle the experience.
The impact of this knowledge may not hit us until we reach adulthood. Nonetheless, it’s all significant—the good bits and the bad.
Bits of wisdom and lessons we’ve been blessed with cannot be measured. But the following notions are worth remembering.
1) There is a first time for everything.
You may fail, succeed, or absolutely despise the task at hand. What truly counts is your effort.
We all begin with little to no knowledge of an action. Climbing a tree for the first time may be frightening, but that feeling is universal. Fall down, pout about it if you must, but don’t let failure defeat you.
Clearly, you aren’t perfect—what fun would that be? Without imperfections, life and its vast list of possibilities would be boring. Don’t aim to be flawless. Ultimately, working for perfection is an unrealistic goal. Aiming for excellence is against the natural order of things.
Instead, realize you aren’t necessarily expected to succeed, especially the first time around. Persevere and you will eventually reach your intended goal. Only through effort will you come to understand the task at hand.
Carry this thought with you on your next adventures.
The road ahead may appear daunting. But the final stretch will arrive quicker than expected if you persevere. Take it one step at a time and always remain positive.
2) The simple things carry the most meaning.
Appreciate the small moments, those often overlooked due to busy schedules and exhausting time constraints.
Life gets hectic. But part of living a healthy lifestyle depends on those wonderfully simple moments.
Don’t live your life with regret. Our loved ones are often snatched from us sooner than expected. Chances to simply live in the present with family appear and disappear with ease.
Does your family plan an annual fall trip to an apple orchard? Tag along! Participate in camping trips with friends and family. Though the task of getting everyone from Point A to Point B seems overwhelming, the trip will be a fantastic experience.
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Play hide-and-seek with your younger siblings or cousins. The game, though simple to you, means the world to them.
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Enjoy a sunset with your significant other.
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Pay compliments forward, especially to strangers. A simple, “I love your sweater! It suits you wonderfully!” can put a little bounce back in that person’s day.
Make someone smile, and maybe, just maybe, they will do the same for another. Life is precious. Savor its wonder and fully appreciate the simple things.
3) What feels permanent can always change.
Promises are often broken, betrayal happens, and faith is lost.
If life feels sour and you aren’t sure whether a good change is heading your way, hold tight! That change will likely hit you when least expected.
As a child, you probably didn’t understand or feel the weight of any extraordinary changes within your household. But ultimately, those changes, no matter how small, have played a pivotal role in your life. In turn, you have become more defined as an individual. How you handle those changes illustrates your strength and determination. Likewise, your grasp on life will drastically depend on the outcome of such altering situations.
No matter the circumstance, remember that life frequently throws curveballs. Appreciate what you have, but prepare yourself for any surprising changes.
Adapting to change with a positive mindset will help you considerably in the long run.
Childhood Experiences Are Worth Remembering
You may not recall every past experience. But the ones that matter, those that brought about lessons you implement into your daily life—those are the incidents that make life sweet. It is from those experiences that the merit of your childhood truly rings true.
Your youth will always be a significant part of your life.
You may not think back on your childhood daily. You may even despise the better part of your past. But everything you experienced, both the good and bad, are important. And those experiences will always matter.
Love this entry!
Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed it!
So true! Everything matters in life, the good and the bad. I agree we should slow down and appreciate those special times. Even seemingly simple moments spent with loved ones may one day become our most cherished memories.
Definitely. Cherish those small moments. It will all feel that much more rewarding in the end.
Very nice. I have so many memories from my childhood, and I as go through life lots of them come back to me. A certain spot I once visited with my family or have traveled too alone. You never get your childhood back so take in as much of it as you can.
Thank you! I know what you mean.
Our childhood passes too quick. We’re lucky if we remember important snippets of it.
Bearing in mind important lessons learned while young will keep one centered. 🙂